Friday Faves 7/10: Wedding Hitches, Dating Around, Zucchini Fritters, Disco Dancers, and West Cork


A wedding story:

This Tuesday was our third wedding anniversary. Tiff and I were married on Friday July 7, 2017. Every wedding has its hitches; ours was harmless (as most are) and funny (in hindsight).

The wedding took place at a church in Charlestown. I prepped at our condo with my buddies, a five minute walk to the church. Tiff, her bridesmaids, my sister, and my mom were at the Liberty Hotel on the edge of Beacon Hill. Probably a ten minute drive to the church. Tiff called two Ubers to drive her and her bridesmaids to the church. My mom and sister rode in the second car. Unfortunately, the driver in my mom’s car plugged in the wrong St. Mary’s Church and hopped on the Mass Pike heading west, on a Friday, in July, Pre-pandemic.

Our wedding was supposed to start at 4:00PM. This was after the priest asked another couple (who was more proactive than us) to move their wedding in the smaller chapel below the church to 5:30PM. This allowed for us to use the 4:00 window (because… we booked the reception venue BEFORE the church…whoops…).

Okay, back to the Uber adventure. My sister knows Boston, but not well enough to catch the Uber driver before the perilous turn down the Mass Pike towards Seattle. My mom doesn’t venture 10 miles from home behind the wheel, her driving experience is like those old colonization video games when area that has been explored yet is black until you push your character into the void. There wasn’t much hope of fixing the problem before it manifested into a panic.

So now, everyone is filling the church, it’s getting close to 4:00, and there’s no sign of my mom and sister. Not ideal. My sister is doing a reading at our wedding and my mom is MY MOM! While all this is going down, I’m not hanging in the back sipping from a flask of delicious bourbon. Instead, the priest thought it would be a swell idea for the two of us to wait in the wings to ensure I don’t see Tiff when she arrives at the church.

So, while I’m sitting awkwardly with the priest, surrounded by all his priestly things, my brother pops his head in to let us know that mom and Careena are heading back to Boston from Anchorage, Alaska and it might be a while. Remember it’s a Friday in July and my mom and sister are trapped in a tunnel underneath Boston. On a Friday, in Boston. On a Friday. In July.

My discussion with the priest had reached the point where the awkward silences were broken by commentary on my watch and my socks. It was now after 4:00, and the concern was we might have to start the wedding without my mom and sister. The 5:30 wedding in the chapel began looming large because 4:30 was the lasest we could start..

The wonderful singer, who was filling the church with “Ave Maria” for the 45th time moved onto the 46th time when my brother peeked in on the priest and me again to let us know that they were getting close, but the rain was making the trip tricky.

Again. A Friday. In Boston. In July. In the freaking rain.

At 4:20 the singer stopped suddenly and the organist blared the first notes of our processional. The priest jumped up and told me to follow him (and keep my hands out of my pockets. But how am I supposed to hide my chewed up finger nails???).

According to everyone that saw it, my mom stepped out of the car, walked into the church, gathered herself, and marched down the aisle like a champ. Yes, she might have aged 2-3 years during her cross-country road trip, but she was steely-eyed and determined to not allow it to effect the rest of the wedding.

And it didn’t.

There is nothing more humbling than moments in our lives when we are faced with great, swelling emotions in front of the closest people we know. Sometimes those moments are planned and other times they are spontaneous. The moment from our wedding that stands out to me are seeing those doors swing open and getting my first glimpse of Tiff as she walked down the aisle (20 minutes after the planned time…). The church is build above the street, so guests walk up into the building and then up a flight of stairs into the main section of the church. The massive doors swing open and Tiff literally walked up the steps, so the reveal was this crazy moment when I only just the top of her head and then she slowly appeared. It was similar to how we met, when she wandered up the steps in into my apartment after she replied to my add for a roommate on Craigslist.

Three years later, during a pandemic, those moments of stepping back and just taking it all in have evaporated. Currently, those moments that do exist are filled with a tinge of fear, faces covered in masks and a strange, unknown future ahead of us.

But when I think back to that wedding I am so grateful for those moments Tiff and I captured over the course of the night, watching everyone around us dance, eat, and sing. The people we love meeting each other on a beautiful July Friday night after the rains cleared out.

Here’s to many more wonderful memories for all of us. And I hope we all manage to carve out some positive moments in the next six months of 2020.

Best Watch

Dating Around - This show is delightful. It is glossy Netflix at it’s best, if you ask me. Yes, it’s a dating show, but different than any other dating show. Each episode shows one person on five different dates. However, each date is at the same restaurant, which allows for really cool transitions from one date to the next. There are no confessionals from the participants, you’re just watching the five dates happen as they’re woven together. At the end of the five dates, one person is picked for a second date, which we see the beginning of as the show ends. The other fabulous part of this show is the various ages and orientations of the participants. This isn’t all gorgeous millennials, and my favorite episode from the first season was an old New Yorker in his 60s looking for a little twilight love.

Best Listen

I’m Going Down (Bruce Springsteen cover) - Every now and then this song pops up in my life, and it always grabs my attention. The original is an exceptional song, and Vampire Weekend does a fabulous cover.

West Cork - On our 12 hour drive home from Ohio on Sunday, this Amazon podcast pretty much got us through New York and Massachusetts. The 14 episodes cover a fascinating unsolved murder in the far reaches of Ireland in rugged West Cork. The prime suspect is an egomaniac and the twists and turns of small town Ireland, poor policing, and a lack of resources leads the French government to get involved because the murdered woman, Sophie Toscan du Plantier, was a well-known French woman who loved visiting her house in West Cork. It’s a free download on Amazon here.

Best Eat

Zucchini Fritters - On Tuesday night, we celebrated our third wedding anniversary with a dinner at Alcove in Boston. It’s a walkable distance from our condo, close to the TDGarden, and they have an excellent outdoor space to eat. It’s not jammed on a sidewalk; instead, they have a big space just outside their doors. The food was delicious and the standout was the zucchini fritters with a sesame dipping sauce. To Alcove’s credit, the portion was solid, too. Big chunks of zucchini, I’m willing to bet the we ate nearly an entire zucchini between the two of us.

Best Drink

Disco Dancer - In Springfield, Ohio there’s a brewery called Mother Stewart’s (the landing page will give you the “itchies” in this day and age…). We’ve been trying to get to the brewery for years, but every time we’re in Ohio around the holidays it’s closed. The building and space is very cool and perfect for CoVid-times; we had some beers and sat outside. The beauty of driving to and from Ohio is the freedom to bring stuff home, so we brought some Disco Dancer back with us. It’s a delicious IPA, and I was pleasantly surprised. It’s got a hint of sweetness to it, which I am finding I like in beers (Bud Light, I’m looking at you). A good summer IPA.

A Little Rain - This was a wonderful beer to sip on while sitting out on Alcove’s patio for dinner on Tuesday night. It comes from a brewery called Small Change, and their story is really interesting. It’s a husband and wife team that doesn’t actually have a brewery and borrows space from other brewers. I am by no means a hop expert, but I’ve found that mosaic hops are in many of my favorite beers. A Little Rain is an American Pale Ale that comes in a cool can. It has a fruity/citrus taste and the low alcohol percentage makes this a must drink. If you come across it, buy it and spread the word.

Best Plugs

The Imperfect Game - We’ve spend nearly 7 months researching ten small English soccer clubs. Our most recent episode closes up this little series. Both and I select our all time Starting XI using only players that have suited up for the ten teams. Spotify. iTunes.

(The 50th) Friday Faves 6/12: Atlanta, Labor of Love, Pork Noodles, The Killers, Cold Brew, Stamped,

This week's Friday Faves includes Donald Glover's Atlanta and also Fox's Labor of Love. I dipped into the way-back machine and listened to The Killer's Hot Fuss album and also thoroughly enjoyed Pork Noodles. Homemade Cold Brew is where it's at when coffee shops are closed (or scary) and everyone should listen to/read Stamped by Ibram X. Kendi.

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Friday Faves 4/24: The Last Dance, Fiona Apple, Dutch Baby, Tacos, and the Flying Coach Podcast

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Best Activity

9:00pm on Sunday for the next four weeks is booked. Why? I’ll be watching “The Last Dance”, ESPN's documentary about Michael Jordan and the Chicago Bulls. The first two episodes aired last Sunday night, each episode is one hour long and it was a wonderful appetizer for what’s to come. The pessimists might say that “The Last Dance” didn’t shed new light on anything. I’d agree, it reminded me of things I already knew and gave a few small interesting snippets of new information, while tapping into that 1990s nostalgia: sneakers, music, sports. Nike even did a special drop of a pair of Jordans during the airing of the documentary. They sold out. Guess those stimulus checks are being used….

I’m most excited for more behind the scenes footage from the 1998 season. The Bulls granted the NBA complete access to the team for that entire season. It was locked away in a vault and had reached Bigfoot mythical levels. It was only seen by a few, and were those people really telling the truth? There wasn’t much of the hidden footage it in the first two hours. I’ve read that the footage is used more and more during the documentary.

The buzz I felt when the show started was akin to the feeling I have at a game, a big game. The anticipation and excitement were playoff levels, maybe it’s because I’ve been cooped up inside for 5+ weeks and I’m losing my mind or maybe the documentary is just really that good.

Tune in to ESPN on Sunday night at 9pm EST and if you missed last week’s, I recommend tracking it down. Live internationally (or have a VPN…)? It should be there, too.

Best Watch

Las Vegas Mayor with Anderson Cooper: This is an incredible, scary, sad, riveting, confusing 25 minutes of TV.

#BlackAF: A new Netflix sitcom that has a Cosby Show meets Curb Your Enthusiasm vibe to it, but with way cooler sneakers… The writer of the show, Kenya Barris, plays himself and stars as the father of six kids. The premise of the show is that his daughter is making a documentary for her NYU college application. Barris a sad sack dad; he’s always grumpy and has very little time for everyone’s nonsense. Barris wrote Black-ish, and it seems like this new show has received mixed reviews over the last week; I never watched Black-ish, but a big critique of #BlackAF is that it’s derivative (except with swears and stuff…). I think the show is funny, the episodes typically have a bit of a heavy topic baked into it. Barris has signed a $100 million deal with Netflix, so we’ll see what else he has in store and if #BlackAF is signed for a second season.

Best Read

Roy Keane - The Second Half: I grew up idolizing Roy Keane, the captain of both the Irish national team and the Manchester United teams of the 1990s and 2000s. I tried my best to wear his number when I played and played the same position as he did. He was tough and a great leader. This is his second autobiography, written with Irish novelist Roddy Doyle. The timeline covers Keane’s sudden exit from Manchester United, his retirement, and the beginning of his managerial career at Sunderland, Ipswich Town, and the Irish national team. Keane is open and honest, at least he seems to be. It’s a quick read, thanks to Doyle’s fantastic writing style, and Keane shares some interesting stories (i.e. Doubting his club’s ability to perform on the pitch because their pump-up song in the locker room was Abba’s “Dancing Queen.”)

Best Listen

Flying Coach Podcast: Seattle Seahawks coach Pete Carroll and Golden State Warriors coach Steve Kerr have a podcast! It’s a good listen, and the most recent episode covers how they both manage the drafting and scouting process. And Carroll spoke about the prep for the virtual NFL Draft (which started last night).

Fetch the Bolt Cutters by Fiona Apple: This is a whacky album, what else would you expect from Fiona Apple? Her first album since 2012 earned a “10” from Pitchfork (a freaking 10) and this opening blurb…

Fiona Apple’s fifth record is unbound, a wild symphony of the everyday, an unyielding masterpiece. No music has ever sounded quite like it. 

Best Eat

Tiff’s Brownies: Just more motivation to run nearly every day…

Dutch Baby: On Sunday morning I opened up the NYTimes cooking app in search of a pancake recipe. Staring me in the face was something called a Dutch Baby. I had never heard of it before and thought it looked delightful. It was very simple: flour, milk, sugar, and nutmeg. Here’s the recipe

Chickpea Tinga Tacos: This was a Hello Fresh recipe. Poblano peppers, chickpeas, and a southwestern spice in a skillet, topped with pickled shallots and tomato salsa on a flour tortilla. A really good and simple recipe.

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Best Drink

Angelica by Lord Hobo: Lord Hobo never fails to impress, and the Angelica is no different. The can stands out because it’s white and gold, different from every other can they have, which is black. Angelica is described as a “Hazy IPA” and at 5.5% ABV, it’s a great quarantine beer that won’t make you wondering what day it is when you wake up the next morning…

Best Plugs:

The Imperfect Game: There were too many heroes to only choose one for this podcast, so Both built a team of Everton Avengers, led by 1980s manager Howard Kendall BUT not 1930s superstar Dixie Dean. Howard Kendall lead Everton to numerous trophies, including the Cup Winners Cup and the greatest night in Goodison Park history when they defeated Bayern Munich in the semi-final.

On the flip side, Martin Atkinson, a referee not afraid to flash a card, draws a lot of ire from Everton fans for an incredible amount of bad calls and indiscretions. His name came up a lot in Sean's search for an Everton villain. However, when an 18 year-old generational talent asks for a transfer and then enjoys incredible success at Manchester United, only to return when his tank was empty at age 32 and then leave a second time for D.C. United, you have to make him the club's villain. Wayne Rooney grew up an Everton fan, signed with them at age 9, scored boatloads of goals in the junior ranks, and then left just as Everton were coming on hard times.

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